Refuses to discon:(inverter cableGen2, rear grey cylindrical) B+ connector

[TeslaCoiled]

Refuses to disconnect:(inverter cable,
rear grey cylindrical)
B+ connector
Any suggestions are appreciated!
All this to get to the ABS module.... yay!

https://openinverter.org/wiki/File:Gen2 ... ctions.jpg

[TeslaCoiled]

Carve down a wood block against the inverter,
to the connector separation point,
& use it to leverage off the plug (w a wide screwdriver)
(while pushing the button in)