Sunny day today, so I cleaned up the wiring a bit. I reused the 10-pole connector for the former exhaust sensor (whatever it sensed) that has 9 poles, 6 of which end up in the ECU, one being 5V hard wired, one GND. The other side conveniently ends up under the front of the car.
So I put CAN, Fuel tank simulator (now runs on ECU) and DC switch signal on there. The latter forks off to the DC switch directly, the remaining go to the fuel tank service hole under the rear seats. Back there CAN connects to the Nissan BMS, and the fuel tank simulation to the fuel tank controller.
End result: no more contention of the CAN bus when spinning the motor, one piece of electronics made redundant (the former fuel tank simulator) and two makeshift cables made redundant (former DC switch and CAN bus wires). Happy with that
Of course all of the fiddling has made one of the battery sense wires come loose, will fix that tomorrow.