Well, I didn't get to do what I wanted, but I did learn something.
Logging on the "party" bus with the EVTV thing doesn't upset the car because it's the backup.
Messing with the charge port controller..Well...yeah. Uh. Don't.
1. It's a tight fit. 2. I understand this part now:
I plugged in the power, and after a second or two, the battery contactors OPENED. I thought that was odd. So I opened the driver door to update the charge limit from 70 to 80% (I wanted some headroom to test with this ECU), and that's when I saw it was really, really pissed off. It said car was not driveable and to contact Tesla service. Yeah, oops. Hmm. Let's open the charge port door. Oh, that works. Look at the door. Tesla logo in RED. RED = Error. Hmm. Plug in the cable, still red. Ok then.INSTALL
Installation procedure is the reverse of removal, except for the following:
Update the firmware.
Swapped the connector back to the one that came with the car, contactor closes, coolant pump starts. Plug in cable, and it is charging currently.
-Matt